Okay... girls in bikinis and the trouble they might cause... TRUE STORY...
I was selected for post grad school... FSU in Tallahassee... was supposed to start in August... was currently stationed at Patrick AFB in Cocoa Beach, so my missus and I were kicking around whether or not to move the family to Tallahassee or remain in government housing at Patrick and I'd come home on weekends...
She decided to go with me on an orientation visit to FSU... check the cost of housing, the campus, etc. Drove on Campus in June around lunch time... BIG MISTAKE... not only were the co-eds walking around in various "hip" student clothing - but many were taking the opportunity to work on their tans...
My mahal took one look around - looked at me - and on the spot said "NOT ON YOUR LIFE"... we then started looking for housing to move the family to Tallahassee!
Geezz and I always thought it was okay to look as long as you didn't touch!

P.S. Deb... I suspect your spunk and experience is a much better choice than many of the other options... it just takes a "more mature gentleman" that thinks with something other than his nether regions to understand that!!!! And I agree with my buddies... ain't no such thing as too old to hit on (although we me, it's flirt with... since hit on means my Mahal will hit me back!!!!)

Best Wishes all... and back on topic... my main pleasure in my job today is working with these NEW (and yes young) Coast Guard men and women. They are GREAT!